Being an educator is one of the most difficult jobs in the world. As a former middle school English teacher, I often cite it as the hardest — and by far the most stressful — gig I’ve ever had. After all, standing in as a surrogate parent, mediator, counselor, and mentor is tough enough, but doing it all (and then some) while covering a seemingly endless number of the state standards and information? Damn near impossible.
Still, millions of teachers head into their classrooms each day to mold the next generation of leaders — all while being chronically underpaid and often undervalued. Because teachers and principals don’t get enough love, I was excited to read about the next wave of innovative educators on Forbes’ recently released 30 Under 30 in Education list.
But there’s one major problem — no teachers made the cut.
While Forbes gets props for recognizing a super diverse group of honorees who are “bringing access and opportunity to the classroom and beyond,” the list is filled heavily with those outside of the public education sector. There are tech honchos like Jopwell cofounder Ryan Williams, content creators like Weird Enough Production’s Tony Weaver, and entrepreneurs like Melissa Lee, co-founder of The Green Program. But there’s only one person from a school district — Fatema Basrai, executive director of leadership at the San Antonio Independent School District — and none of the folks on the list make their living inside a classroom.
Valerie Strauss of The Washington Post explains why excluding school-based educators from the list of honorees is problematic:
“Without even a single representative of the several million teachers whose job it is to educate some 50 million kids in America every school day, the list could be read as an indictment of traditional education and a complete disregard if not rebuke of the teaching profession. It is right in line with the ‘reform’ movement seeking to ‘disrupt’ traditional education with technology and big data, which critics say is intent on privatizing the public school system.”
I could go on about Forbes’ major oversight, but I’d rather shout out a few teachers who deserve to be recognized. And if the business magazine wants to highlight actual hardworking educators under 30, here are a few for its next list.
Erica Buddington
Erica Buddington is a Brooklyn-based teacher, writer, and founder of Langston League — a curriculum design company that aims to “to address educational and opportunistic inequalities in at-promise neighborhoods, through culturally relevant and equitable curriculum.” Recently, Buddington’s unique teaching style went viral after she remixed Cardi B’s hit “Bodak Yellow” to teach geography to her students at Harlem’s Capital Preparatory Charter School.
Jonathan Crossley
When Little Rock, Arkansas, decided it needed to completely transform its schools back in 2015, it turned over control of Baseline Academy, a formerly low-performing elementary school, to Jonathan Crossley, a then 26-year-old teacher who’d never been an administrator before. Named Arkansas’ Teacher of the Year in 2014, Crossley had experience helping his students succeed. In four years as a high school English teacher, he increased the number of students who scored proficient on state tests from 32% to 92%. During his short time as principal, Baseline Academy has become a model of how a diverse school in an economically challenged area can begin to turn around.
Ryan James
Ryan James’ mother wanted him to be a pediatrician, but he had other plans. After graduating from James Madison University in 2011, the Virginia educator began teaching middle school social studies at Lucille M. Brown Middle School in Richmond. In 2015, he was named the school’s teacher of the year, and this month he was honored with the Milken Educator Award, dubbed the “Oscars of teaching,” for his tireless commitment to his students, many of whom deal with poverty, homelessness, and other trauma.
There are countless innovative, dedicated, and effective teachers all across America; it’s time they start receiving the respect (and let’s be real, the pay) they deserve.
Grieving couple comforting each other
This response to someone grieving a friend might be the best internet comment ever
When someone is hit with the sudden loss of a friend or loved one, words rarely feel like enough. Yet, more than a decade ago, a wise Redditor named GSnow shared thoughts so profound they still bring comfort to grieving hearts today.
Originally posted around 2011, the now-famous reply was rediscovered when Upvoted, an official Reddit publication, featured it again to remind everyone of its enduring truth. It began as a simple plea for help: “My friend just died. I don't know what to do.”
What followed was a piece of writing that many consider one of the internet’s best comments of all time. It remains shared across social media, grief forums, and personal messages to this day because its honesty and metaphor speak to the raw reality of loss and the slow, irregular path toward healing.
Below is GSnow’s full reply, unchanged, in all its gentle, wave-crashing beauty:
Why this advice still matters
Mental health professionals and grief counselors often describe bereavement in stages or phases, but GSnow’s “wave theory” gives an image more relatable for many. Rather than a linear process, grief surges and retreats—sometimes triggered by a song, a place, or a simple morning cup of coffee.
In recent years, this metaphor has found renewed relevance. Communities on Reddit, TikTok, and grief support groups frequently reshare it to help explain the unpredictable nature of mourning.
Many readers say this analogy helps them feel less alone, giving them permission to ride each wave of grief rather than fight it.
Finding comfort in shared wisdom
Since this comment first surfaced, countless people have posted their own stories underneath it, thanking GSnow and passing the words to others facing fresh heartbreak. It’s proof that sometimes, the internet can feel like a global support group—strangers linked by shared loss and hope.
For those searching for more support today, organizations like The Dougy Center, GriefShare, and local bereavement groups offer compassionate resources. If you or someone you know is struggling with intense grief, please reach out to mental health professionals who can help navigate these deep waters.
When grief comes crashing like the ocean, remember these words—and hang on. There is life between the waves.
This article originally appeared four years ago.