Doing homework in run-down, pay-by-the-week motels, studying for a test while doubled up in cramped apartments with relatives, or reading novels until it’s light’s out at a shelter — that’s the reality for the nation’s nearly 1.3 million homeless public school students. And although homelessness among school-age kids is still primarily an urban problem, data from the National Center for Educational Statistics shows that big cities don’t have a monopoly on the issue, and some students living in rural communities might be worse off.
[quote position="left" is_quote="true"]Homeless students can be 87% more likely to drop out out of school.[/quote]
In a blog post last week, the NCES provided details and two visual snapshots of where most homeless students live. The NCES, a division of the U.S. Department of Education, wrote that during 2014-15, the most recent year for which data is available, 3.7 % of public school students in U.S. cities were identified as homeless. For students living in smaller towns and rural areas, 2.6% and 2.4%, respectively, were identified as homeless. Suburban kids are also affected, with 2% of them identified as homeless. The department defines homeless students as “children/youth who lack a fixed, regular, and adequate nighttime residence.”
The data reveals that, whether they live in a big city or in a farming community, homeless students are all more likely to live in a space doubled up with other families. However, the data is also a reminder why many education experts are ringing the alarm about the plight of students in rural America. A recent post by the American Enterprise Institute notes, “More than four out of five of the U.S. counties designated as ‘persistently poor’ today are rural.”
That provides one possible explanation for why rural students are more likely to be classified as “unsheltered” than their peers in small towns, suburbs, or big cities. Unsheltered means they’re “living in cars, parks, campgrounds, temporary trailers — including Federal Emergency Management Agency (FEMA) trailers — or abandoned buildings,” according to the NCES. Their families may simply not have the money for alternatives, and in rural areas, shelters, supportive nonprofits, and relatives with a sofa to crash on aren’t as common.
The NCES also found that “the percentage of homeless students who were unaccompanied youth — meaning that they were not in the physical custody of a parent or guardian — was highest in rural districts (9.3 percent) and lowest in suburban districts (6.9 percent).”
Students who are runaways or who no longer live with their parents because of conflicts, like being thrown out of their home because they came out as LGBTQ, would be considered unaccompanied. The AEI points out, “Rural kids are more likely to abuse alcohol and meth, and they have a higher teen-birth rate than their urban peers,” which might also contribute to them being considered unaccompanied.
Research shows that a student who experiences homelessness can be 87% more likely to drop out of school, which makes figuring out how to meet these kids’ needs a real priority for education experts. For students living in rural areas overall, AEI recommends expanding the number of charter schools and lauds programs that train teachers and administrators specifically on how to work with children and youth in these communities. The think tank also suggests that philanthropists “move away from the big-city fixation that has dominated charitable efforts in education for more than a generation.”
Given that student homelessness in urban areas hasn’t been eradicated yet, we probably don’t need to “move away” from thinking about what’s happening in cities. But it’s a point well taken that the plight of children and youth in rural areas shouldn’t be ignored.
Grieving couple comforting each other
This response to someone grieving a friend might be the best internet comment ever
When someone is hit with the sudden loss of a friend or loved one, words rarely feel like enough. Yet, more than a decade ago, a wise Redditor named GSnow shared thoughts so profound they still bring comfort to grieving hearts today.
Originally posted around 2011, the now-famous reply was rediscovered when Upvoted, an official Reddit publication, featured it again to remind everyone of its enduring truth. It began as a simple plea for help: “My friend just died. I don't know what to do.”
What followed was a piece of writing that many consider one of the internet’s best comments of all time. It remains shared across social media, grief forums, and personal messages to this day because its honesty and metaphor speak to the raw reality of loss and the slow, irregular path toward healing.
Below is GSnow’s full reply, unchanged, in all its gentle, wave-crashing beauty:
Why this advice still matters
Mental health professionals and grief counselors often describe bereavement in stages or phases, but GSnow’s “wave theory” gives an image more relatable for many. Rather than a linear process, grief surges and retreats—sometimes triggered by a song, a place, or a simple morning cup of coffee.
In recent years, this metaphor has found renewed relevance. Communities on Reddit, TikTok, and grief support groups frequently reshare it to help explain the unpredictable nature of mourning.
Many readers say this analogy helps them feel less alone, giving them permission to ride each wave of grief rather than fight it.
Finding comfort in shared wisdom
Since this comment first surfaced, countless people have posted their own stories underneath it, thanking GSnow and passing the words to others facing fresh heartbreak. It’s proof that sometimes, the internet can feel like a global support group—strangers linked by shared loss and hope.
For those searching for more support today, organizations like The Dougy Center, GriefShare, and local bereavement groups offer compassionate resources. If you or someone you know is struggling with intense grief, please reach out to mental health professionals who can help navigate these deep waters.
When grief comes crashing like the ocean, remember these words—and hang on. There is life between the waves.
This article originally appeared four years ago.