The teacher's son admitted that even he hadn't been able to understand his mother's condition until the nurse completely changed his perspective.
Small, thoughtful gestures can profoundly impact someone’s life without needing much time or effort. A nurse showed this when she supported X user Drew McCaskill’s mother, who was grappling with Alzheimer’s and stuck in past memories. In a post on X (formerly Twitter), McCaskill shared, “My mom has Alzheimer’s, but she was an award-winning teacher for 30 years.”
McCaskill explained that his mother had recently started waking up and getting ready for school, forgetting she was no longer teaching due to her Alzheimer’s. Commonly, people with Alzheimer’s tend to forget and go back to any habitual practice based on specific memories. Apart from communicating with patients to make them understand, there’s not much caregivers and doctors can do in such cases. However, the woman’s nurse came up with a wholesome idea to help her out. “Her AM nurse started giving her printing emails to edit. ‘Grading papers’ is her new joy,” McCaskill exclaimed.
He shared a picture of his mother sitting with a bunch of papers, intently grading the sheets. She seemed too engrossed in her papers and duty to be worried about her health and any other concerns. The nurse had given her something to look forward to every day instead of drifting towards confusion. “I thank God for her and her caregivers. Joy is always possible,” he added.
My mom has Alzheimer's, but she was an award-winning teacher for 30yrs. Lately, she wakes up and gathers things to go to work. Her AM nurse started giving her printing emails to edit. "Grading papers" is her new joy. I thank God for her and her caregivers. Joy is always possible. pic.twitter.com/TyLJSOidHP
— Drew McCaskill (@DrewMcCaskill) September 17, 2024
In a comment, McCaskill expressed his gratitude for the nurse’s empathy. “She saw my mom not as a sick old lady... but as a person with skills to contribute. She gave her this new joy and capacity even amid her incapacity.” he wrote.
She SAW my mom not as a sick old lady... but as a person with skills in need to contribute... she gave her this new joy and capacity even in the midst of her incapacity... she saw my mother as half full not half empty… and i thank her because I haven’t always seen her that way.
— Drew McCaskill (@DrewMcCaskill) September 18, 2024
He added that he himself underestimated his mother and had a difficult time understanding her till the nurse’s gesture changed his outlook. "She saw my mother as half full not half empty… and I thank her because I haven’t always seen her that way,” McCaskill wrote. He explained in another comment, how the gesture was a simple one, yet had a heavy impact on his mum. “Knowing she’s safe and that people are thinking about what will make her feel useful and in control of her life even just a little bit more humbles me. I don’t know that I would have thought to do that for her. That simple thing that makes her feel smart again. So grateful.”
Knowing she’s safe and that people are thinking about what will make her feel useful and in control of her life even just a little bit more HUMBLES ME. I don’t know that I would have thought to do that for her. That simple thing that makes her feel smart again. So grateful….
— Drew McCaskill (@DrewMcCaskill) September 17, 2024
In threads that followed, he even added how he had seen his mother’s life change over the years and how this simple act contributed to it. “She still wants to look forward to things and contribute, she’s still here,” he exclaimed. His post also prompted people to tweet in appreciation of the nurse's thoughtfulness. @DocJennifer remarked, “Beautiful example of how to enter the world of a person with Alzheimer’s.” @Katiephang wrote, “It takes a very special kind of soul to have the patience and the love to give as much purpose and dignity as possible when Alzheimer’s steals that from our loved ones.”
me too... it's a blessing... her nurse saw my momma as half full and not half empty... that's a blessing to her and to me, too... to still see her capacity... even in the midst of her incapacity... she still wants things to look forward to... and contribute... she's still HERE...
— Drew McCaskill (@DrewMcCaskill) September 18, 2024
This made me cry. How kind they are to do this ❤️
— Anne Margaret Daniel 🌻 (@venetianblonde) September 18, 2024
This warms my heart bro. I did not know this. My gram had dementia in her latter years. I just love that your mom is getting this kind of joy.
— Rashaun Kemp (@RashaunKemp) September 18, 2024