Troubled son sends deeply personal message to his father. His reply is what every child deserves to hear

20 years ago, a boy told his dad, who was also his single parent, that he was his best friend. His dad replied, "I'm not your best friend. Friends go away." Years have passed and the boy is now 27 years old. But his relationship with his dad is the epitome of what a beautiful father-son relationship looks like for real. His 62-year-old dad is the kind of dad whose son is not hesitant to share his deepest vulnerabilities with him. In a recent Reddit post, this man, who goes as u/sneezedr424 on Reddit, shared an interaction with his dad, wherein his father’s response to a message left him in tears. The Redditor shared his post in r/MadeMeSmile group which has over 10 million members. “I love my dad,” he captioned the post. 

In the post, he shared a screengrab of a text message screen showing a message he sent to his dad. “Thank you for always having my back,” he wrote. “Today was so sh***y, but talking with you made it substantially less so. You always encourage me to see the better light in things and help me find solutions to frustrating and difficult problems. Even the simple act of hearing your voice makes me smile, and relaxes me.”

He concluded the message with a teary-eyed emoji, writing, “I love you more than you will ever know. Thanks for being everything that you are.” In a response that stirred people’s hearts, the text message of their dad read, “I’m your dad. That’s all I ever wanted to be.” The crisp one-liner amassed 50,000 upvotes and over 600 comments.

People said they felt bemused by the heartwarming and open relationship between him and his dad. Those who have tough or absent dads said they were envious. “This is wonderful - both what you said and his response. As someone whose parents never ever had their back, I'm envious. Please don't ever take it for granted,” commented u/indymlvc. u/lasonna51980 said, “Man, I wish I could text my dad that. Good for you both for having a great relationship.”

Reflecting on the sweet interaction, u/madamnaturegalaxy3 wrote, “You two are so sweet. The way you express your feelings to him shows that you're comfortable being vulnerable with him. I wish my dad had been that for me too.” u/wil added, “As a son, I did not have this dad. As a dad, I'm doing everything I can to be this dad to my sons.”

In a comment, the Redditor revealed that his dad is the parent who raised him and his brother all by himself for most of their life, while their mom was out of the picture for some reason he didn’t explain. He said that his dad started out as a park ranger and some days they barely had anything to it. “Despite that, he continued to do things like take us on road trips, take us to museums, go to parks and hike, anything he could think of. Once a week we would go to Blockbuster and get a movie. He was always available physically and emotionally, which is amazing for a single parent, and now he gets flowers on Mother's Day and tools on Father's Day lol.”